Lohan is shipping out her old party crew

Lohan is shipping out her old party crew

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Dani Shay (l.) and Ali Stroker at the ‘A Better Holiday’ concert for the It Gets Better Project

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Lindsay Lohan is finally trying to clean up her act.

The troubled 26-year-old “Liz & Dick” star is making changes so she doesn’t end up in the slammer, sources close to LiLo tell Confidenti@l.

First on her list: Just saying no. An insider tells us while it’s no surprise some Lohan friends are acting like she’s a social pariah, the actress is doing the same with some of her party pals, too.

“She hasn’t been texting and calling back some of the people who she just parties with,” says a source, who has been with La Lohan at the Electric Room, Catch, Cabin Down Below and Avenue, where Lohan allegedly punched a palm reader in November and where sources told Confidenti@l she is no longer welcome.

“She is realizing there are people in her life who are bad influences, who think it’s funny when she wants to fill water bottles with alcohol and go out, or stay out all night at nightclubs in New York and look sloppy in photos. These aren’t her real friends.”

The insider says she’s trying to be more careful, considering she’s potentially facing 245 days in jail for a recent probation violation unless she cleans up her act.

The same source says Lohan’s cited a comparison of her “friendship” with Max George of the Wanted to that of Taylor Swift and Harry Styles of One Direction. “She knows how everyone looks up to Taylor, and what a good image she has,” says the insider. “But it’s totally different when you're acting like a groupie.”

One friendship she is cultivating is with a spiritual guru. According to reports, she wants the guru to write letters on her behalf to the judge hearing her case, to help demonstrate that jail time isn’t the best option for her. (The judge has the option to send her to counseling instead.)

A second source close to LiLo tells us this isn’t the first time she’s sought advice from a spiritual adviser. “There was a woman who she was introduced to a few years ago who worked with the Ronson family she met when she was with Samantha,” says the insider. “She worked with a lot of big celebrities.”

A ‘GLEE’-FUL OUTCOME

Ryan Murphy is responsible for both fictional and real-life romances. At the “It Gets Better” concert benefit on Sunday, aptly titled “A Better Holiday,” two female contestants from “The Glee Project” stepped out for the first time as a real-life couple. Ali Stroker, a paraplegic due to a car accident, and Dani Shay attended the event, which included singers Consuelo Vanderbilt Costin, Madame Mayhem and photographer Victor Haim.

“This is my first great love affair,” said Stroker, 25, who came in second on the second season of the program. “I didn’t know what to expect.”

The couple plan to go home separately to their families for the holidays, but Shay, who was eliminated in the second episode this season, will introduce her girlfriend of a year to her family during New Year’s.

The couple said their co-stars on the show knew “pretty much from the beginning, but kept it a secret.” The pair will release a music video on Tuesday titled “One,” documenting their first year as a couple and how they met.